Happy 4th of July 2012

Flag ceremonies, Pancake breakfasts, parades, games, music, picnics, barbecues, and fireworks are innately part of July 4th celebrations.  As I got ready to attend a flag ceremony along with a pancake breakfast I reflected upon how many 4th of July celebrations I have attended.  Dick and I never missed a fireworks display regardless if we were in Palm Springs or Waikiki or Reno.

More importantly I want everyone to take time to reflect upon the gifts we have in living in land where we have the freedom to live how we want, do what we want (within boundaries of the law), and believe what we want and that we have the technology to share our feelings with the world.  The power to use our free agency should remind us to remember and honor our active service men and women. Even more importantly remembering and honoring those who fought for our freedom s during the last 236 years.  When our founders (John Adams, George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, Thomas Paine to name a few) voted, and signed the Declaration of Independence they helped shape a country that allows me to expound my point of view with fear.

The song “God Bless the USA” by Lee Greenwood

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united states currency seal – IMG_7366_web (Photo credit: kevindean)

expresses how I feel as an American:

If tomorrow all the things were gone,

I’d worked for all my life.

And I had to start again,

with  just my children and my wife.

I’d thank my lucky stars,

to be living here today.

‘Cause the flag still stands for freedom,

and they can’t take that away.

And I’m proud to be an American,

The Assembly Room in Philadelphia's Independen...

The Assembly Room in Philadelphia’s Independence Hall, where the Second Continental Congress adopted the Declaration of Independence (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

where at least I know I’m free.

And I won’t forget the men who died,

who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,

next to you and defend her still today.

‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,

God bless the USA.

From the lakes of Minnesota,

to the hills of Tennessee.

Across the plains of Texas,

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English: “The Declaration of Independence, July 4, 1776,” oil on canvas, by the American artist John Trumbull. 20 7/8 in. x 31 in. Yale University Art Gallery, Trumbull Collection. Courtesy of Yale University, New Haven, Conn. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

From sea to shining sea.

From Detroit down to Houston,

and New York to L.A.

Well there’s pride in every American heart,

and it’s time we stand and say.

That I’m proud to be an American,

where at least I know I’m free.

And I won’t forget the men who died,

who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,

next to you and defend her still today.

‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,

God bless the USA.

And I’m proud to be and American,

English: This is a high-resolution image of th...

English: This is a high-resolution image of the United States Declaration of Independence (article (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

where at least I know I’m free.

And I won’t forget the men who died,

who gave that right to me.

And I gladly stand up,

next to you and defend her still today.

‘Cause there ain’t no doubt I love this land,

God bless the USA.

Happy Fourth of July! Take time to share with others how you feel today on the 236th celebration of our Declaration of Independence!

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Vegetarian or Vegan: What’s Next?

Sunrise on the Stearns Wharf, Santa Barbara, C...

Sunrise on the Stearns Wharf, Santa Barbara, California. Français : L’aube sur le Stearns Wharf, à Santa Barbara, en Californie (États-Unis). (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Today, I traveled to Santa Barbara with a friend for a business appointment.  As we drove back toward home, we stopped and had a late lunch at the local In-an-Out Burger. As I ate the very yummy burger, french fries and soda, I had a  thought which I want to share. I have not ate meat for a week, and I have not had  my weekly indulgence of pastrami from Subway for over two weeks.  I have come to the realization that I am very comfortable getting my protein from non-animal sources.  As we discussed how much less meat I have been eating for the last several months, I realized that I have not been missing meat and other animal products.  I am not sure I will ever be 100% vegetarian or vegan (still love cheese) but not eating meat or animal products is much easier and feels natural. 

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Meanderings before Midnight

Midnight sun (josef.stuefer)

Midnight sun (josef.stuefer) (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

A friend yesterday advised me not to fall back into my vampire sleeping habits of last year where at one point , I was sleeping by day and by night I was studying, writing, and caring for my husband. The reader might wonder why I am sharing may late night thoughts and it is because I find myself still up tonight thinking about the things I accomplished today, goals and projects for tomorrow and the rest of the week. So as I sit at my computer a few minutes before midnight pondering so many things while my brain travels a million miles a minute, I wonder what everyone else thinks about in the middle of night and thinking how ironic it is to make significant life changes late at night.

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Monday meanderings – May 21, 2012

Ali and Daisy

Life is so crazy with tremendous emotional ups and downs.  Today, I have been up since 7 a.m. had breakfast, got ready for the day (clothes, makeup, hair, e.g.), deactivated my beloveds Facebook account, changed my personal status from married to widow, held two Mary Kay makeovers, took a lunch break, fed my kitties, scheduled plans for tomorrow, updated Linked-In profile and requested recommendations, updated resume, along with attending Little League game later and maybe even attending a church single adult activity. Just typing this has me breathless and its only 3:52 p.m.!

Ups and downs are beneficial especially when they help you figure your short, medium and long-term goals.  The peaceful solitude expressed by two of my sleeping kitties is fodder for my soul and the most important part of the day is observing my babies. They make me smile and laugh and help realize what is important: practicing joy, peace and love of God in all your activities and blessings will abound.

Don’t forget to find the joy in life with love and laughter! CIAO!

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Repeat after me, you can blog, and I agree with your assessment about beauty. Love your example of the butterfly.

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“To blog or not to blog,” that was the question. I am a woman with many hats (what woman doesn’t wear many hats, right?) and so when considering blogging, my biggest hang up was what to blog about. Well, the only common thread I could piece together was that even in my complexities and many hats that I wear, beauty is at the center…the beauty of God, the beauty of my family and life, the beauty of my work and purpose.

Beauty is beyond make up brushes. It’s beyond the skin we cover with concealers and colors. It’s beyond the skin we care for trying to escape the wrinkles and age spots. Beauty is in the heart of all I think about, talk about, and act on. Even in the midst of life’s ugliest circumstances, there is something beautiful to be thankful for because God can use the bad for…

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My Spin – Dark Shadows

Dark Shadows

Dark Shadows (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

The story of Barnabas Collins and his family from Maine, USA has been told several times since the original soap opera of the late 1960’s. Earlier today, I watched the re-imaging of Dark Shadows from the minds of Tim Burton and Johnny Depp.  I do not always watch or even enjoy all of Tim Burton’s or Johnny Depp’s films but Dark Shadows was a fun movie. Barnabas Collin’s (played by Johnny Depp’s) reactions to the world of 1972 after being entombed for 196 years was entertaining especially thinking the golden arches as a manifestation of Mephistopheles .

I have to share with everyone that my passion for Vampire literature, TV shows and films.  I discovered my love of vampires and supernatural creatures while reading Anne Rice’s Interview with A Vampire as a teenager.

Now I won’t tell you that Dark Shadows had the amazing special effects of The Avengers (saw last weekend) or even the compelling edge of the seat action of The Avengers but I left Dark Shadows with a smile and lightness of spirit that I had been missing earlier today.

If you want to see a fun light movie with dark undertones, go see Dark Shadows but one caveat in my recommendation, it’s rated PG-13 for several reasons and is not appropriate for children.

Find much joy, love and happiness in all your day! CIAO!

 

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Cleaning out a Closet

The process for grief is scientifically the same for every person but the timing is uniquely different.  This morning as I eat my Shredded Wheat, sip my hot chocolate I mediate and pray on my plans for Tuesday, May 8, 2012. I know that deciding to go through some of my sweet husband’s belongings to give or give away is a powerful step and fraught with emotions I am not completely ready to feel or handle.  I scheduled this activity last week and a friend is coming over to help but the emotions are churning.  So I am telling myself what I would tell others, one step at a time, as you pack recall happy memories associated with the items and find joy. My first step was sharing my activity with my fellow Mary Kay sisters, now sharing this post with the universe, then I will begin my day one step at a time.

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My Spin – Ethos and Music

Manzanita Lake, a shot taken from the campus o...

Manzanita Lake, a shot taken from the campus of University of Nevada, Reno. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Last October I penned an essay about the relationship of Ethos and Music.  The following paragraphs are this essay.  I hope the shared thoughts will make you think about your own thoughts about the relationship between ethos and music.

The activity of pondering the relationship between ethos and music is a timeless question which has plagued people since the days of the ancient Greek philosophers.  Ethos otherwise known as character and the relationship to music has been debated, written, and argued from ancient times to the 21st century.  The debate has raged from philosophers to theologians to politicians to everyman.  Opinions vary greatly and many believe strongly that about ethos and music can be subjective, and is either a good or bad influence on the listener.

First, music can arouse passions but the application of whether it arouses good or bad passion is subjective.  For example, I recently planned a memorial service to celebrate my husband’s life.  He loved music with a fierce passion.  Our mutual love of music was one of our common loves and interests.  In planning the service I ensured that the music was a large part of the memorial service, especially his favorites and that all the songs were upbeat or uplifting or offer me happy memories.  Amazing Grace was my husband’s favorite hymn and he loved both singing the song and playing it on his trombone.  Amazing Grace elicits a range of passion and emotion.  For me, I was filled with a vivid happy memory of the first time I heard my husband play the piece on his trombone.  But another person could hear Amazing Grace and feel sad.

In contrast, I had a musical experiences that made me angry and fearful.  In the mid 1980’s, a potential boyfriend took me to a Judaist Priest concert.  Between the sounds from the stage to the vibe from the crowd to the evil bull with wild red glowing laser eyes I felt very fearful. (The result was that I dumped the potential boyfriend.)  Today while reflecting on the event and my feelings I realized when I believed or rather felt that the music was evil incarnate, but now I just think the music and the atmosphere generated negative passionate feelings.

Second, every generation has experienced the disapproval of their elders from movies to art and especially music.  Many emotions can drive the parents or elders dislike of the so called “new” or “different” music. It could be argued that a teenager must experience the right of pass of their elder’s criticizing their music.  I recall a story husband told me about his mother criticizing his taste in music.  He loved jazz music especially the jazz music of the 1930’s and 1940’s.  His mother told him he should be so preoccupied with black (she used another word) music.  She would ask him repeatedly why he didn’t listen to some nice white boys instead of the black music.  The irony was that the source of his mothers dislike was the fear that people or community at large would discover that their ethnic background included Native American (Indian) in time when it was not acceptable to be different.

As a young adult I became aware of the controversy which started to brew in the 1980’s about explicit lyrics and music while attending the University of Nevada Reno.  The Parents Music Resource Center or PMRC was co-founded by Tipper Gore and my grandmother was a supporter of the organization. I grew up in a house where the arts were encouraged.  I was exposed to all types of music from classical music to country music to rock and disco music and everything in between.  One of the musicians I fell in love with in the 80’s was Madonna.  I remember my Grandmother’s reaction when she discovered I was singing along with Madonna’s Like A Virgin.  She did not think the song was appropriate for young lady to be belting out as a personal anthem.  She believed my singing of the song and listening to other songs by Madonna was going to corrupt my character.  My response (which I am editing for politeness) to my Grandmothers was when she stopped celebrating cocktail hour with martini’s and her water pipe I would stop listening to Madonna.  I still listen to Madonna.

Third, music can be created and performed for many purposes but their purposes can be summed up as either sacred or secular and provide either a good or bad influence to the listener.  Many theologians both past and present would argue that sacred music is uplifting and promotes character while secular music promotes the baser instincts and impacts character negatively.  But both sacred and secular music can impact the listener.  For example, when I was dating my husband I would attend a Vineyard church which had a vibrant music program led by an amazing Christian music band.  The church held their Sunday morning service in a local high school gym.  I loved the emotional moving praise music which was the first 30 minutes of the service.  I found the music uplifting and inspirational.  I found the music a good influence.  While my husband found the music too loud, not inspirational and he certainly felt negatively about the music, so he would drop me off and come back 30 minutes later to avoid the music.  He commented that church music should be reverent and should not a bad influence on the listener. His point of view was that music should smooth and melodic whether it was sacred or secular.  Actually his words would be doesn’t matter if the music is in a bar or church as long as it’s played well.

Ethos and music was first critiqued by the Greek philosophers: Aristotle, Plato and Pythagoras.  The universal question of how character was influenced by music can be explained by personal reactions or points of view.  Passion whether good or bad can be influence by music but is subjective in the ear of the listener. Since the Greeks, elders have judged the music the young have listened too; while the benefit of appreciating modern sacred music is not always appreciated even if many consider it a good influence.

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Empires of the Indus the story of a river, by Alice Albinia.

Indus River

Indus River (Photo credit: xitus)

Recently read Empires of the Indus the story of a river by Alice Albinia.  Brief background information on the author: Alice Albinia studied English Literature at Cambridge and a MA in South Asian history at the School of Oriental and African Studies.  Her major area of research was religious and political history of the Indus region.  Empires of the Indus was the joint effort of her research for her MA and her trips along the Indus River Valley from the mouth of the river and delta which feeds into the Arabian Sea to the headwaters high up in the Himalayas in Tibet.

The main purpose of the book is to explore the cultural, political and religious history of the entire Indus River system.  The time period covered in each chapter varies from ancient history (older than 5,000 years) to current events (modernity).  My conclusion is that the purpose of Empires of the Indus is to educate the reader of the rich history, language, religion, and secular culture which uniquely ties humans to the water systems they abide near.  In the words of the author: “One day, when there is nothing but dry riverbeds and dust, when this ancient name [Indus or saraansh] has been rendered obsolete, then the songs humans sign will be dirges of bitterness and regret.  They will tell of how the Indus…bringing fourth civilizations and species, languages and religions.”

Empires of the Indus is an in-depth but small glimpses of the history over a long period of time (centuries).  The author uses a variety of methods to describe the history of the Indus. She uses narrative (including first person), historical synthesis, oral history and cultural anthropology intertwined to produce an intriguing compelling book.  Overall, the book is written for a non-historical audience exposing a river region of the world through intriguing sampling of vignettes.

The Empires of the Indus is not only about one woman’s journey from the mouth of the Indus River near modern-day, Karachi Pakistan to the headwaters high up in the Himalayas, in Tibet but a series of vignettes, experiences and stories spanning centuries.  The book is organized in chapters by the route Alice traveled the Indus river valley system. For example, the first chapter which is titled Ramzan in Karachi discusses the independence of the colony of India and subsequent Punjab partition of Pakistan and India.  The author puts a personal face on the dislocation of millions of people because of religion and culture.  She interviewed a Zohra Begum whose “memories of that time are vivid and agonizing.” One of the main points of the books is how the Indus River caused or provided for a fusion of peoples, religion and cultural irrespective of background.  For example in chapter 5, Alice delves into how the Hindu and Sikh faiths are less defined in Sindh Pakistan unlike anywhere else on the continent.  She explains how the Hindu’s in “Sindh are Nanakpanthis, followers of Guru Nanak…to this day, in Pakistan, many Temples and Gurdwaras are combined in a way that is not the case in India.” The time span of history of the Indus River Valley predates written history to the Neolithic age. For example in chapter 11, the author talks about the Neolithic people of Ladkah and the ruins the pre-date Hinduism and Buddhism.

The author of Empires of the Indus uses historical narrative and synthesis together through much of the book.  She not only brings meaning to different historical events alive but re-creates the feeling and atmosphere so that the average reader finds the book appealing.  As Tosh discusses in The Pursuit of History, the benefit of using techniques together is “because these open up the possibility of the comparative method” through space and time. For example in chapter 6 Up the Khyber, Alice brings the fort of Attock; the view from the ramparts; and the merging of the Khyber “brown with silt [and the] icy blue [Indus filled] with glacial snow-melt.” She visually describes the atmosphere then shifts the historical reference from the present back to early 16th century and the expansion of the Mughal Empire led by Emperor Barbur. He was the first to forcibly spread Islam from the mountains and plains of what is considered modern Afghanistan across the Indus River. The downside of the extensive use of narrative and synthesis is that sometimes the book’s shifts of time period can be dizzying to the reader.

Alice Albania intersperses oral history throughout the book.  She uses oral history as a complimentary tool to enhance the different locales along the Indus River Valley system.  Many of the oral histories the author provides in the book are the experiences of different groups of women.  By the author interviewing and using oral histories of women living along the river system from Karachi Pakistan to Uttarakuru she exemplifies the strength of character and modes of survival necessary in one of the world’s largest river systems.  As much as the oral histories added texture to the book and the author uses the technique selectively, the use of them became predictable.  After the 3rd or 4th chapter, if the reader is careful they will notice that a minimum of one or two oral histories has been incorporated into each chapter.

Alice Albania, the author, uses cultural anthropology as a historical aspect to her journey along the river system, especially with a in-depth analysis of the religions and how they formed a synthesis and not the conflict in other parts of the Indian sub-continent.   Every chapter in the book discusses elements of the different religions, how along the river the diversity seems less relevant between the Hindu, Sikh, Islam and nature based faiths.  After studying each religion individually before reading Empires of the Indus, the author’s research about how the religions have fused or amalgamated along the river valley system was enlightening.

In summary, Empires of the Indus-the story of a river is a series of vignettes or pearls which gave the reader with a flavor of history over a lengthy time span of history while providing glimmers of the people, languages, religion and history of the region.

References

Alice Albinia Empires of the Indus: the story of a river. (New York: W.W. Norton & Co. Inc., 2010), 12-13, 110-111, 130, 308-309.

John Tosh The Pursuit of History. (Harlow, UK: Pearson Unlimited, 2006), 162,

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My Spin – Sunday, May 6, 2012

Sunday is a day of rest, the Sabbath, the time to gather with friends or families, watch sports, go to the beach, or go to Church or any other number of activities. These are some of the activities people take part in on Sunday’s.

Last Sunday, I missed church for the first time in almost a year because I had that nasty crud going around so despite being out-of-town  to take care of my dear friend’s three babies I made it to the local meetinghouse in Hollywood.  The members were so welcoming and friendly and I am going to make a point to visit Hollywood First Ward again the next time I am spending the weekend.

In the spirit of my blog, and that today is the Sabbath I want to share a favorite scripture from the New Testament (King James version) “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. “ – John 3:16.

My thoughts and prayers for today is that everyone take a  moment to give thanks, and consider the beautiful joyful aspects of life and share love, joy, and happiness with all you spend time with today.

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