The expression of my journey with my sweet husband.

Loss has a number of definitions but the type I’m writing about is the loss of a relationship.  Regardless if the loss is from death, divorce, disappointment or change, the changes from the loss can work real changes both positive and negative.

As a blog whose theme is thoughts about life, love and laughter, why a commentary about loss?  Today is a special day.  Today would have been my sweet husband’s birthday.  He moved to the next plane of existence but I still think of him.  As I share my thoughts, I smile because my thinking about his birthday and him being gone does not always make me sad anymore.  I can visualize him telling me don’t be sad but celebrate life and in honor of his wishes I share a few thoughts.

Loss is a tool for positive or negative changes or justification to make good or poor decisions.  I have recently discovered that sometimes people do not always understand that they can cause pain and cause negative outcomes.  It is important for anyone who is experiencing a loss to remember that the only influences they should allow in their life is positive uplifting and not negative sabotaging people.  

In my personal experience, the best cure for loss is to embrace the loss, remembering the good times and making positive powerful changes. 

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